Up, Down Left, Right Of Jasmond's Life.

面具无法除.
心锁无法开.
真我何时现?

posted by Jasmond @ 11:59:00 PM

I hate life. I hate reality. I hate this world. I hate myself. Why do life sux so much?



世间苦, 人逃避.

世间乐, 人沉迷.

世间爱, 人痛哭.

世间恨, 人遗忘.

世间情, 人执著.

posted by Jasmond @ 11:58:00 PM

所谓天无绝人之路.

所谓人生波折乃是人生考验.

所谓吃为苦中苦方为人上人.

等等..等等..

这一切都可信吗?

人生百态, 难以琢磨.

人生起起落落, 波折重重.

这一切的一切, 何时才能了?!

posted by Jasmond @ 1:40:00 PM

You're just the happy go-lucky type. You might have
your pet peeves, but other than that, you're
mainly calm. Blending in with your
surroundings, you're the type of person who
everyone likes. Usually it's you who cracks
jokes at social gatherings - after all,
laughter is the best medicine. Sometimes you
pretend to be stupid, but in all actuality, you
could be the next Einstein.


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posted by Jasmond @ 7:26:00 PM

遇見你, 終生無憾.

愛上你, 一生無悔.

失去你, 痛苦無言.

posted by Jasmond @ 10:49:00 AM

I need time for myself to relieve my stress for each & every day. But there's no way I can find such time. Life as a soldier is f**ked up. BUT I find it still bearable. What bother me most is the idiot & moron malays & ah bengs of my platoon. They think their big fuck ah?! Why can they just cooperate?! If they cooperate, life will be more easier! I'm not racist or whatever lor. I got lots of malays friends but never did I encounter such type of idiotic people!!! Hais. Everyday kenna fuck, everyday kenna tekkan because of those idiots. My platoon is a f**ked up platoon! Only care for self. ArrrrrgH!!!!!!

posted by Jasmond @ 5:47:00 PM

An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open,and after you marry, close one eye."

Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust,desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.

Once you decide to commit to someone, over time his or her flaws,
vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values,dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.

Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete,compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.

If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

What keeps a relationship strong?

Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humour, sharing household tasks,some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal,shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note). Leave a nice message on the voicemail or send a nice email.
Sharing common goals and interests.

Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don't put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment,withdrawal,abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.

*Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then
you'll know how to
give...Treat every moment as is if it's the last day,
then you'll know how to treasure*

posted by Jasmond @ 5:46:00 PM